Seriously. I can go like 2 days without eating anything and be absolutely fine and then it’ll be like lol oh look a bagel and then it’s like HOLY FUCKING FRIDGE BATMAN. JESUS TAKE THE WHEEL OM NOM NOM NOM NOM NOM.
'just put up with it' - dont fucking tell me to put up with these moods. because i seriously doubt you even have any idea what its like to hate every inch of yourself. to be so addicted to hurting yourself that its pretty much all you think about. dont tell me to put up with it, if youre going to criticise me for the ways i 'put up with it' in. seriously, go fuck yourself.
When they’re in crisis, you can’t go and see them in person. You can’t let them spend the night at your house. You can’t cook them dinner. You can’t go with them to a job interview. You can’t take them out for coffee. You can’t hold their hand or hug them. You can’t let them use your shower. You can’t be a physical contrast to the abusive people in their physical lives.